Being Happy is being foolish

The whole point of being happy is the way we ruin ourselves.

Every person wants happiness…and want to lead a happy life. But I the act or aim of being happy  is foolish because when you want to lead a happy life you will take away other’s happiness. And when you take others happiness for you to live happy, then there is no meaning in you being  happy!!!

Many people have ideas and they want to make their ideas come true and by realizing their dreams or ideas they’ll be happy. Every person should realize that for every effective execution of an idea there will be loss in happiness of other people….I can say that happiness in the world where we live is constant, like the energy of the world is constant. Energy transfers from one place to another and the happiness also transfers from one place to another.

Happiness transfers from one person to another by the changing emotions in a  person.

According to me,the analogy of me comparing energy with happiness is apt.

An example::::::::

Consider the life of a girl or a boy who is around 20 yrs old doing her graduation .She has many things around her…She sees many things around her and there is every chance of her, getting influenced by her surroundings…So she’ll do things what others round her are doing..As her idea is being happy,She’ll do things which others do,and by that she starts a quest to be happy and she doesn’t understand she has been influenced and an impact has been created on her by the surroundings round her.

A decision taken by us will have many factors and other people’s decisions acting on our decision…..So we can be happy only by minding our business and taking care that we do not get influenced by our surroundings,which we cannot !!

A piece of speech by Ayn Rand

“The right to life means that a man has the right to support his life by his own work (on any economic level, as high as his ability will carry him); it does not mean that others must provide him with the necessities of life.” – Ayn Rand

Destiny and Development

Destiny and Development are two different things but actually one depend on the other. The destiny of the next generation depends on the development of the present generation. And again you should consider that a country is made up of people and each person of the country should be developed for the whole country to be developed and every person on this planet has a destiny (if you believe in destiny) . The relation between destiny and development is of great importance .

Your destiny has an effect on the country’s development and as country’s development affect other people’s destinies I can say that your destiny affect others destiny. Each and every person should be conscious of what are they doing and why are they doing something.

If you develop yourself your develop your destiny and if you develop your destiny you develop your country’s destiny and if that happens you will helpful in developing other people’s destinies too…

There is no rule that a person born in a country should live in his/her country only and he/she is not allowed to migrate to other country. So if a person migrates to another country he takes his destiny along with him and he helps people of the migrated country to develop .

The point of destiny and development is that they are inter related things and if think this way you can find the relation among them.

now , let me tell you how does your destiny gets affected by others. As I said you affect other’s destiny, others also affect your destiny.

lets say you are in a relation or you are doing a job you don’t like or not comfortable with, then this affects your destiny. You are really responsible for your destiny and also others can affect your destiny and thereby the development.

If you are in a relationship the first thing you loose is your freedom (at least to certain extent) and the words compromise and sacrifice come into picture. And if they come into your life your destiny will have a shift. I don’t say the shift is good or bad. But I can definitely say that there’ll be a shift for sure. If you consider the shift to be postive then the outcome will be positive and again as we know every coin has 2 sides so as life has 2 sides good and bad. Now the bad side of the relation is break up and now when this happens this has an impact and your destiny changes and again the change can be good or bad.

If you think in a bad sense then the outcome will be bad for sure. Although I cannot guarantee that relations affect your destiny, but I’m still convinced with the fact that they change your destiny to some extent because your mind , soul and your time will be another person thereby you instead spending time on developing yourself spend time with your mate I guess which has low scope of development.