the whole point of being …

the whole point of being in a relation is being selfish and carrying your own divine selfishness throughout your life

you should always remembe…

you should always remember that you should be the person to love you and trust you the most rather than anyone no matter what kind of relation might you have with the person

Stay hungry , Stay foolish

I’d  like to share my grief which was in my heart and head from the minute I heard the news about Steve Jobs’ death.

Now coming to the post, In this post I’d like to tell you about the things which had a huge impact on me and I feel everybody in this world will be influence and moved by these very things.

• Money
• Relations
• Death

The above three things influence most people in the world. But I’d like to tell you that there are people who

keep these apart and struggle to make things better and always dream about a bright tomorrow.There are people who follow the conventional path and make a job,get a family and die one fine pleasant morning. On the other hand there are people who have nothing, they do nothing and die like something on one chilly night. But there are really a few people who have nothing make something they want to, they too die on one pleasant afternoon…making a difference which could be felt without their presence.

These people have a vision which is beautiful and also powerful,they work hard day & night to make that something they’ve dreamed off. They put everything they have for something they believed in and these people change the world  and fill the world with their dreams.

Money is really necessary for everything either for buying a book on science or a Mac even a piece of bread. This doesn’t mean if you have money you can buy anything and everything and it also means your money  is not useless. You should understand that,money is a medium of exchange and if you think a bit you get the answer as

Money is only a COMMON medium of exchange and is only a necessity

Relations are the ones which us happy,sad,angry etc. To generalize things about relations, relations are those which bring an emotional change in us,when something in them changes. Good relations are necessary for all of us, you cannot sit inn your office and work with peace of mind when you had a quarrel with your girlfriend can u? of course that is possible only when quarrels are the most common thing among st you  So,I think to achieve your dreams the relations you maintain with your surroundings is really very very important.

Everything has a time,and you have a time too,you should remember that everybody in this world would take shelter, permanently  inside a 6 foot beautifully carved box of wood someday. So you should live your present the way you want,and also have a dream and work hard every minute to make the dream come true.

When you are on your death bed,or when you think you’ll have your death bed soon ask yourself this question

Did I live my life the way I want? Did I make my dream true? Am I happy?

Work hard so that you can answer the questions in a positive manner and earn a page in encyclopedia

When I heard the news about Steve Jobs death, and after I saw his speech at Stanford I only remember the words Stay Hungry Stay Foolish !!

A ‘loveless’ love story

“love can be deadly and disturbing” 

Long long ago…the year was 2009, when I actually saw and read the strange story of two people which I’m gona tell you now…Although this post is fictional,it is based on true incidents happened in 2009… It was a winter night and there was a slight drizzle when I sitting in the balcony of my room and watching the  empty road which was very flat and long, very very interestingly..There is only one street light which was flickering down the lane, I could see a person with his sweatshirt on, walking towards a tree on the other side of the road..he did a lot of things like exercise,sleeping,eating I dono why. It was night, the road was empty and this person is acting weird!! This made my interest’s adrenaline pump.So I was taking a close look at his activities.I guess 1hr passed and I saw another person probably a girl,who was walking on the road I could make that as I used a binocular to actually know what is exactly happening..As it was night and the street light didn’t have any interest to support my interest I have to do every possible thing to get to know what is exactly happening there at that tree.

The girl walked past the tree and has nothing to do with the boy in the sweatshirt.I guess the boy was actually waiting  for some one. But  no one met him in the next 2 hrs. All my interest was drowned like a ship of Titanic.The drizzle stopped and  the man started to sleep under that damn tree I don’t know the reason exactly (may be he’s thrown out of his house) . I don’t know when I slept,but I too slept in that very damn chair in the balcony itself. It was half past 4 in the morning I don’t know what woke me up,I woke up and my closing eyes saw something which made them wide open!! The person in that sweat shirt was dragged onto the road and had a shiny yellow  bladed  knife in his stomach and smooth cut of his throat . The grey t-shirt turned red and his pants were really wet with blood. My eyes and me  couldn’t believe the scene and I thought for a sec my binocular was playing games, but the scene was real and the things I said now were actually facts!!

I wasn’t afraid of the scene I dono why . The person in front  of me,lying dead had my sympathy rather than my fear. I thought poor boy and started to look at him closely and this time the street lamp showed interested along with a little sunlight.I really now have a better view of the body than yesterday night. The body was looking pale and his face was low,white and lacked the human charm his body has 3 wounds one was a cut along his throat and his oral cavity was opened through which I could see ants and other insects going into and coming out of the oral cavity.The yellow bladed knife is still shining and has his liver attached to it,I could also see a yellow fluid near that knife along with the liver.It was the bile juice I realized all the anatomy I studied these years was all in front of my eyes.He has blood all over his body. The scene was not so photogenic I thought I could have some photo but I don’t want to as the site was a bit disturbing.

It was 6 am and people began to come out of their houses onto the roads and followed by them was the police people . These people are so frightened to see a dead body lying on the street.May be,some one of them called the police and police made a stylish entrance with their black and red Ford cars…Along with the police came a bunch of people in white costumes,I’d rather call them as people in white uniforms,made some tests collected some things out from the dead body . In the mean time the media people’s population increased exponentially and the number of common people reduced. The media people were yelling and to me this site was a greater horror than the site which I saw in the morning!! it was about two hours I could hear their screams when I was brushing,bathing, having my breakfast and my lunch!! Finally it was 2pm and all the people along with the person in the sweatshirt vanished and gave me some peace…I was asleep for the next 5 hrs it was evening when my dad came with his face confused & puzzled. It was night after my dinner, dad & I sat before the TV as my net internet connection was kept in an coffin buried with my low scores. Like the life time of a person depends on his health,my internet connection’s life depends on my scores at the university.

Dad switched to a news channel which covered the whole of our street crime scene and reported that the convict  responsible for the crime was held by the city police later this evening .Though police denied to give any information about the case,according to the news sources,the convict was a relation to the victim.I was shocked,though I did not know the truth about the story,I believed the news channel report.So I thought how could a person kill his relation? This was very annoying. Dad turned the TV off and went to bed and I did the same thing. I thought if I had any chance to know the truth what has happened,I’ll know it. Although this is a common case and common news to many people around the world.This crime is special to me! It all happened and I’m a witness. So I thought I could go to police a tell what I know,but I have a question flashing…why would the police believe me? I should tell the police or inform police about something the man and I know, and no other person except us.So I went to the police station(first time).It is bit different from what I see in the movies. I went to a police who typing something very fast,and  said him that I have some information regarding the case.The police turned to me and said go to the person their,he’ll take you to the officer handling this case. I had to wait for 3 hours.The police station is a busy place and had all kinds of people coming in and going out(and very very messy).

Finally I met the officer and said him what all I saw that night. The officer had an expression of an actor listening to a film story.When I’m done he took me to the convict,I don’t know why and he has showed me a the convict’s cell, and said he’ll come in 1 hour and asked me to have a look at the convict as he got an phone call (may be he has some urgent appointment) and gave me permission to talk to the convict if I want to..The cell was dark I couldn’t find the face of the convict I could only make the shape of the convict. When the light is on in the corridor of the place,I realized the convict was a girl!! I couldn’t believe the site and asked the in-charge police officer to check for the case number 091143 and confirmed the cell number was the same and she is the convict the police had. I was shocked at the site and was actually tensed as how could a girl do  it. How could she do such a crap ?? Is she related to the man?? Many questions are settled in/on my mind and I started jotting the questions in a rough manner on a paper and when she finally turned to me,the site aroused fear in me though she was very beautiful and had a great smile.

I gathered some courage to ask her about the man(victim) and I said what all I saw, to her for no reason.After listening to me,she said ” I love him and I’m the girl you saw who went past him that night, I didn’t actually kill him,I only made him go free from his sufferings. ” I didn’t understand  what she was actually speaking. I had a face which was blank and cold. She saw me and said “if you wana know the story of what has happened give me the book and pen you are carrying and collect the book tomorrow. I did as she said and went home. Next day after a lot of request and a little bribe the police allowed me to meet her and she didn’t speak anything and gave the book to me I could see the pen and its empty refill in a corner of the cell. I thanked her and had a question why she is doing all this,with that question in mind I came home,kept the book in my shelf and started to have my lunch while the TV was running.

The news channel reported the latest happenings of the case and said that the crime involved a women who was one of the many girl friends of  the victim whose name is Bob. Although the convict claims she is the only girl friend of Bob,the investigation says Bob has 17 girl friends and he has the habit of ‘changing’ his girl friends very often. An interesting fact is, the victim is the convict’s 23rd boy friend. My mind’s blown after watching the entire report of the news channel. I finished my lunch, but I could’t remember what I actually ate.Though I slept I’m only interested to know what happened,why was he killed ? These questions along with many other related questions made me to sit and look at the book in my shelf with a fear,curiosity,interest and horror. Though I don’t wana tell you the reasons for all the above mentioned emotions,I can the share with you, what she wrote in the book  with you. Before I could start to share those things,I recommend you/advice you the below content is only for strong heart-ed people(not for weak heart-ed).

The below is what the convict girl wrote in the book.

The ‘loveless’ love story

We met in the summer of 2008, though many of my friends said he is not a great guy,I didn’t think so…we were everywhere roaming,partying, drinking and most importantly f*ckin. He changed me completely in two months of our relationship. He was such a sweet guy who gave me presents every now and then and surprised me very often. He introduced me to his family and I gathered some courage and introduced him to my family. Though our parents didn’t like our relationship they are not against it. My mom only warned me not to have an sex with Bob,though we did it very often. I love him more than he loves me. We are possessive, obsessed and mad about each other. I don’t think the things we did any couple won’t dare to do any of them. I don’t want to tell you all of those. But I’l tell you one such incident.It was new year 2009 we were partying at a bar,they were many couples that day.we were dancing and drinking suddenly he began to smooch me and we smooched hardly and wildly for a long time (one of my friend said we kissed for 1hour).

Although we love each other,they were many fights,we hurt ed each other mentally and physically as well.This hurting  became very common and our love story became ‘loveless’ love story at one point of time. I never believed in people,and what they say about Bob earlier and now I didn’t believe Bob after listening to people.It was high time I thought and all people around us thought of a break up. Before the day of our break up Bob posted the videos of our sex in a porn site, and also in his facebook profile and tagged our friends in it. This thing shocked me like never before and all people and friends were calling me up . I don’t now whether it is fortunate or unfortunate,my parents were out of the town when all this happened.

I didn’t know what to do. I only cried and cried . I called up Bob,he said he’ll come to my house in 30 min. When I saw him I couldn’t control myself from slapping him. He started to support his act by telling me,”as now all of us know we  did it,our parents do not have any choice or option except they should agree for our marriage. ” I was hurt ed very badly,my family was hurted too and I knew it…I started realizing all the things which appeared good turned suddenly into a hell . I knew I couldn’t do anything now..He got a call and he said he’ll be leaving and left. I’m alone in my house fucked up,crying and didn’t know  what to do.Few days passed, On the night of the murder, I was going to my house when I saw Bob  near a tree waiting for some one..I went to my house as it was night Bob didn’t recognize me. I sat on the terrace of my house and started to observe Bob,at 2am I saw a girl (most probably) came to Bob, and I could see under the street light they made love. I couldn’t control that. So I thought of going to Bob and stop it…  I went to them,he is finger fucking her with a cloth in her mouth.It appears she had orgasms in the mean time. Bob looked at me and I don’t know why he took a knife,he took a knife and tried to pierce me,but I some how managed to keep the knife in his stomach. The girl who got fucked took a knife and slit his throat. I was shocked by her action.

She looked at me and said,”this bastard has made you a hooker. I wanted to kill him as he did the same thing with me too. It is better we leave now”. She dragged him to the road near the tree and made a deep cut in his stomach,near the wound I made and confirmed he is dead by now and left along with her knife. I stared at the dead body of Bob, for minute and tears rolled down my eyes . I was afraid I could get caught,I went to my house. I made Bob,relieve from me(his suffering) . I’m happy now.No regrets.

On the last page of the book she wrote….

I advice you not to fall in love , have sex and mess your life up.

After reading the book, I had no words in my mouth,no thoughts in my mind and everything appeared to be blank for a minute. It was night by the time I finished reading the book my  dad came,I hid the book among-st the text books and went for dinner.My dad switched on the TV and got to the news channel which reported another convict in Bob’s case was held today afternoon and both of them were sent to custody.This case is reported as a open and shut case…as both of the convicts admitted the crime.

Few days later….

I read in the newspaper, both women admitted the crime and were given a ‘death sentence’ .

This is a tale of love, death and disturbance.

THE THEORY OF LOVE

“This post contains explicit content”

All the people, in fact living or dead have lovers…Each person is a lover to some other person and that person may or may not be the lover to this person..But it happens that a person can love one or more people in his/her life…I don’t know why….exactly….Things like love and sex happen the most or I can say they are the most happening things in teenage…Dating is one of the platform to make or select a person to be your lover..

I have a doubt…I read things like…”love happens” and lines like “love at first sight”, then what is real need of dating???

I often find  people say friendship is a platform which may or may not end in love…but it is surely a platform for love…Till today many people round the world have some kinda confusion when it comes to drawing lines between friendship,love and lust…

I always find by my analysis or logical deduction that lust doesn’t need love…at least it only needs love while having sex…while love has lust in it…all love stories have or contain some thing called the “explicit” content which is called sex…because I feel a man and a women can or will be able to express things,(which cannot be expressed by language) only through sex…..

Friend is  a person with whom you actually can share 90% things happening in your life…

lover is a person with whom you can share the remaining 10 % things(+90%) happening  in your life…

I also find people share things depending on the compatibility factor… I think it is one of the reasons or it is the priority to choose our friends…

According to the compatibility theory,the more compatible you are with a person..more are the chances of you people becoming friends…

Till 3 years back,Love to me is the relationship that exists between a boy and a girl…but now the definition of love attained diversity….’diversity of sex’

the following  3 lines explain the above 2 lines….

a) boy loving a girl and a girl loving a boy,it is a straight relation and it is a normal one

b) boy loving a boy…this is hypothetical relation,in the past. But now it is  a very practical one..a gay relation…

c)girl loving a girl…a lesbian relation…

If you carefully observe the above lines you can actually find an interesting fact!!

love is independent of the thing called the “opposite gender”…it can happen to people of same gender too!!

so the first postulate of the theory of love is

“love is independent of the thing called the “opposite gender”…it can happen to people of same gender too!!”

the gay thing

why should boys have all the fun ??

a legal relation....

I feel one of the differences between love and friendship is something called the “possessiveness”. You don’t have this in friendship,but it exists in a relation….let me tell you why…

the first point is love is not friendship and friendship is not love…love is different from friendship…

Possessiveness comes into the picture when your priorities change for the same person…when I say these words I mean if you are in a relation with a friend of yours…I define possessiveness as a feeling of having a person for only themselves…It is common feeling one has towards his love  in a relation…when this thing grows in smarter,faster and in a better way..you find that relation in trouble…

Everything in this world has some limiting points or the threshold points which one shouldn’t cross at any point of time under any circumstances ,like everything in this nature… a relation has some limiting points too!!

the second postulate of theory of love is

“friendship is  stronger relation as it doesn’t have something called the possessiveness”

its possessiveness!!

possessiveness implies hands tied !! very sad !

people tend to feel and think of living their life with the person they love…and many believe love is the step below marriage…

All love stories doesn’ t end in marriage,why is it so??

According to me, marriage is future relation and love is the present relation… In many cases,in fact in most cases love happens in the first step and marriage in the second step….Only in a very few cases the inverse of it happens….

There is always a notion of present, past and future in a relation..However past is regarded as trash as far as the this postulate is considered….

If you are happy in the present,the chances or the probability of you being happy in the future are more…But if you are not happy in the present,you tend to think of a break up rather than getting married…This is what happens in most of the cases…So,most relations do not end in marriage…

The third postulate of theory of love is

“love is weaker relation than friendship,as you may or may not be happy all your life…” 

its friends and friendship....

Each of us have fantasies…which we want to be true,with the person we love…if by some reasons that person is not appreciating our fantasies,that is a problem…everyone thinks in their own natural way… and have different opinions… so there is always this 50-50 chances of our fantasies becoming true,which is not a happy news to many of us…

the fourth postulate of theory of love

“love is not sex and sex is not love..sex is a part of love”

the pleasure

model of missionary...

problems in a relation commonly refers to problems in love between 2 people of opposite sex….

I think these kinda problems comes into picture because of the feeling of insecurity….

the question of “Am I secure in the relation?” When you think that way,I suggest you strongly to get out of that relation because there is every possible chance of the other person in the relation getting hurted and you actually do not have the right to hurt anybody,at least the person you love!!

the fifth and final postulate of the theory of love….

”     ‘we’  sounds better in fact it sounds the best in a relation than the word  ’  I  ’  . So say  ’we’  are happy, than  ’I'm’ happy in a relation”

"we" are happy...

NOTE: ”The theory of love is a generalized theory which can be applied to any relation in this world,irrespective of caste,creed,religion,race,geography,landscape,weather,eating habits etc…”-ITS VISHU

A BOY….A GIRL….

“This is the post,which I thought 458 hours ago,this post contains some “disturbed” words and disturbed images which might disturb you,so please do make up your mind before you scroll down..thank you..“-its vishu

Long long ago..a few billion years back,on a planet called Earth animals were really great in number,and the number of social animals were fewer,compared to the other animals. As time passed by,Man (not woman) took control of the planet Earth by either taming the animals or killing the animals using his mind,which was a weapon which made other beautiful,hard and paining weapons…..Thus he dominated other animals and marked his existence.

the early man

A few million years ago, this animal called Man by the process of mating began to reproduce explicitly…and the number of humans  increased on the planet…

Thousands of years ago,he began to build settlements,kingdoms and write books about anything and everything and there was nothing called “women” then!!

In the mean time,few people who called themselves as poets,wrote something which for the first time brought into the picture about women…and this really continued for a long long time…

Later, in the recent past…a word which was invented, I guess many years after the invention of language and the word is LUST..a few minutes later after its invention there was another word which was invented,to be precise,they are a pair of words…LOVE and HATE

love has lust

lust is genuine

                                                                                                             

love and hate are the couple

The usage of these words in those days limited themselves to kingdoms,enemies,warriors,GOD etc..

I mean the words LOVE and HATE were used by people along with the above words…until a poet who wrote a play,which changed the people and their thought process.. He brought out,the LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL(many people say and think that way). With his inspiration,many people started behaving that way and many writers wrote pages and pages… Millions of pages,were written which has the word LOVE on them…and the important thing is that, the LOVE written on those pages meant or described about the LOVE of (or) LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL !!!

If you think in a psychological  way, people who read these pages, have an impact on their mindset and they become hipsters!!!

Remember in the past, there was a male dominated society,now it is not the case due to something called

“women empowerment”

"women empowerment"

The number of hipsters grew in number and,the importance of women grew in society, in fact in the world,with the help of man and his LOVE!!

Now as you know the year is,2011….and the past is back!!!!!

Thinking what is the past??? I’ll tell you, as I’ve said the early people mated and there is nothing called a relationship,a permanent relationship then. Now,the same thing is befalling, to be precise it is going “ON”.

People now-a-days are very “mature”, very “intelligent”, very “hardworking”(especially in bed)

Let me tell you the meaning of MATURE in Y2K, it means there is no guarantee that you are the only mortal social body, who is going to fuck me or getting fucked up!! Any one can actually fuck me up or get fucked up,provided I’m attracted to him/her…So, grow up and don’t be foolish!!

a message

INTELLIGENCE now-a-days means, to play the fool around (a boy with a girl or a girl with a boy) so that they can get laid in bed…and after the “maleness” and “femaleness” become inert and calm,they say “bye-bye”

A boy is attracted to a girl.. a girl is attracted to a boy… this is zoology,to be precise physiology but not anthropology!! the attraction  is due to hormone development.These days the physical processes are going right, but the social processes are going from bad to worse!!

The attracted people

The value of and for relationships is going down,second by second…and this is causing some serious problems..

According to me, problems like AIDS shouldn’t be treated like personal problems,they are National problems and the reason for the encouraging rate of  A.I.D.S  is  the “good” relations(physical) which people are having..

it has no cure!!

The youth …have sex because..the animal nature in man and women has its peak in YOUTH…. This animal nature can be controlled,but people don’t want to…I guess they need some pleasure of opposite sex.

The social status, ignorance and excitement of boys and girls is making a free way to sex and disturbing the minds of  people, who actually brought them down here…

The slang which is with men all the years,now beginning to expand its vicinity to women!!

Girls need to keep their mouth shut,to be polite they need to control their tongue and mouth along with boys.

If that’s not the case,they’ll go to place where they can only sit,stand,sleep and cook.

I think Boys and Girls should understand the difference between LOVE and LUST… They should also realize that LOVE and the THOUGHT OF ‘BEING IN LOVE’ is fake and false, and the word LOVE is causing some serious damage to the economy of a nation and also to people personally…

                                   

The difference between love and lust is, lust in most cases is true and it is the root of love and it can survive without love, it is the sexual desire a person has towards a person of  same sex or opposite sex,people are making me write this really sucks!! (gay and lesbian kinda things)

And coming lo love it is always more of female world, because i think they are romantic,responsible and act in a better way than boys..They really control their desire,But not anymore..

To be in relation,people should have an idea of what is in their mind,they’ll mess up things…

messy relations

People are of two types,one is confused and the other is not confused…When I say not confused,every person do not have the relationship “clarity” cent percent,The confused people change their minds very often…

Please dont get confused with your relation and don’t mess things up…

I really feel there is no need to have a relation,  I will tell you why in my next post “superman”